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Kink and BDSM Friendly therapy in los angeles & online across California

kink and bdsm friendly Therapy for adults

"I want support in building healthier dynamics within my kink relationships."


"I’m struggling to communicate my needs and boundaries in my relationships."


"I feel disconnected from myself and the community I want to belong to."


Sound familiar?

I see you.

Are you finding it difficult to talk to someone who truly understands the intricacies of BDSM relationships, taboo kinks, and creating a leather life that brings you joy and emotional fulfillment? Perhaps you're immersed in leather culture and need a therapist who genuinely gets it. Maybe you've faced misunderstanding or judgment when trying to share your experiences with others, or you're hesitant to open up for fear of being stigmatized.

You might be struggling with relationship dynamics unique to the kink and BDSM community, or feeling isolated because others don't grasp this important part of your life. Perhaps you're seeking support in navigating boundaries, consent, and communication within your relationships.

Whatever it is that you’re experiencing, you’re beginning to notice the impact of this in every facet of your life:

  • Noticing tension in your relationships, when expectations or boundaries are unclear or misunderstood.

  • Struggling to find time for self-care, as balancing community involvement and personal relationships becomes more challenging.

  • Experiencing stress or anxiety, due to a lack of support or understanding in your personal relationships.

Kink and BDSM Friendly Therapy can help.

Even with experience in kink, you can continue to strengthen your sense of authenticity and confidence. You can deepen your relationships, fostering respect, understanding, and alignment with your desires. You can navigate the nuances of your dynamics with clarity and peace of mind. And I’m here to support you in doing just that.

Kink and BDSM Friendly Therapy helps you do three things:

  • Create balance between your kink life and other aspects of your identity, fostering harmony in all areas of your life.

  • Improve communication and trust in your relationships, helping you and your partners set clear boundaries and expectations.

  • Strengthen your dynamics by navigating roles and power exchange with greater clarity and mutual respect.

I’ll help you through this process, tailoring each session to your unique needs and circumstances. My approach to Kink and BDSM Friendly Therapy comes from a place of understanding and acceptance: believing that your desires and lifestyle are valid, and supporting you in navigating them with confidence and well-being.

It’s time to craft a leather lifestyle that fills your life with pleasure, deep satisfaction, emotional connection, and true joy.

If you’re ready to…

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Deepen trust and communication in your established dynamics.


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Navigate complex power exchanges with greater clarity and confidence.


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Build confidence in communicating your needs and boundaries


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Address challenges like emotional drop or burnout within your scenes or relationships.

…then I’m here to support you on your journey.

  • Our sessions provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can openly discuss your experiences, desires, and concerns related to kink and BDSM. We can talk about anything that's on your mind, from relationship dynamics to personal identity, without fear of misunderstanding or stigma. While much of our work involves conversation, I also incorporate interactive exercises to help you explore your feelings and enhance communication skills. My goal is to make you feel comfortable and supported throughout our time together.

  • The duration of therapy varies based on your individual needs and goals. Some clients find that a few months help them address specific issues, while others prefer ongoing support to navigate more complex situations. We'll work together to determine the timeline that feels right for you, always prioritizing your well-being and preferences.

  • If you're seeking a therapist who understands and accepts your involvement in kink and BDSM without judgment, this therapy could be a good fit. My experience working with individuals and couples in the kink community allows me to offer specialized support. While I can't guarantee specific outcomes, many clients find that therapy helps them improve communication, resolve conflicts, and embrace their authentic selves with confidence.

  • Getting started is easy—just reach out to me to schedule a free, no-obligation consultation. In this initial conversation, I'll answer any questions you have, learn more about what you're hoping to achieve, and explain how I work. Together, we'll decide if we're a good fit, and from there, we can schedule your first session. Let's take this important step toward healing and growth together.

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